Learning Positive Things from Negative Experiences
Article provided by Zhang Xinyue of Create Abundance
If you’ve been on this earth very long, you’ve probably failed at a few things. From the time we arrive in this world until we breathe our last breath, life is one big Journey of Discovery. And we don’t always discover wonderfully exciting things. Sometimes we discover that we aren’t well-organized. Sometimes we discover that we lack ambition, aren’t good communicators or need better parenting skills.
Those negative things you learn about yourself can be even more helpful to your successful future than the positive though. Too often we brush the bad stuff under a rug and forget about it when we really need to allow it to change our behavior. Don’t waste a single thing on your journey! Learn from those negative and positive events in your life.
Do you always seem to struggle with finances? Own up to it! Let that fact guide you to take some courses on managing money. Do you struggle in social settings? There are plenty classes that can help. Whether you need to learn to manage money, relationships, or simply obtain stronger time-management skills, don’t be afraid to admit and get the help you need.
Life teaches us many important lessons but we must be open to learning them, even the ones that are somewhat unpleasant. As you grow and develop better skills in your weaker areas, you become a more complete human being and a better athlete. You are eliminating the ineffective traits and replacing them with sound life skills that will serve you well.
You can create abundance in your mindset that carries over into your sports career and every area of your life.
With many years as a well-known spiritualist leader and teacher in her field, Zhang Xinyue is known for a variety of achievements. Her creation of the Abundance system aims to promote a meaningful and straight forward approach to life’s philosophical issues. In 2012, she finished one of her best-selling books, Create Abundance. The book is a collection of quotes containing words of wisdom on how to develop body-mind-spirit cultivation.
Her book was initially released in Chinese, but it is also available in English and other languages now. A second version of the book has also recently been released.